my stepping philosophy

• Everytime I read my own words, I found that even myself could not completely agree what I have writen below. The reason I kept here is because it was there, what I felt at the moment………………………………………………….

• We are so easyly to ignore what we have by searching what we don’t; even it’s so vital and has been with us since forever, we can only see it when it begin to disappear. We can’t sense the air but under the water. We can’t sense the water but lost in the desert. We can’t see who loved us most but by the time we lost it

• Money. Aha! It values us greatly in our society even in our own mind. Rethink, if ones said it can’t make you are better person; Rethink, if you’ve been told it can’t buy you happiness and a love from others… Money, the most powerful thing we had invented has equally two sides – angel and devil. No matter which we followed, our voice will be amplified extremely. For many people, or maybe for all of us, it has become a universal religion; the difference is some think life is all about it and some think its all about the life. For me, I will not feel regret that I bought a 15 dollars flower for my love one, at the same time really believed and appreciated that 1 dollar could make a day for someone out there… (April 21st, 2005)

• All the things we have learned and studied in our past, were secretly inspiring each others in our mind; even we could hardly acknowledge this immediately, it will definitely pay off in the future. The broader we have learned, the smaller we would miss. Also, I guess, keep exploring and learning interesting things broadly is like filling up the spectrum; once we have all the colors, we could choose the favorite one without miss any. (March 29, 2005)

• When a beautiful thing goes wrong, should I try to save it or leave it? If there is nothing could save, wish there is something good to remember.

• If the TRUTH is the cruelty to us and the blade to others, should we still open it? If we have to choose, should we die like hero or live like normal? (March 27th, 2005)

• In our history, the world never changed because of those who understood and followed; It changed only because of those who disagreed and even misunderstood. (March 23rd, 2005

• The great value of ones life is how it has been remembered in others

• The universe is more tend to balanced rather than equaled

• Sometimes I feel I am a person who trying to survive in the reality but living in the fantasy; I know I could never reach my fantasy; it can only lead me to searching… but, I would rather never lived without dreaming of my fantasy…(March 22nd, 2005

• Our Life is the experience for individuals; the history of the world is the experience for our entire human; what happened before will always find the way to reflect at our own path in varies form. We should learn more about the world history because when the time come upon for decisions, we can always refer to the past – what the forerunner had been through. It will lead us a better understanding and maybe a way to avoid the suffering (like the war) again. (March 20/2005

• If we could really comprehend one thing completely- yes, just one thing. We will be capable to understand every single thing in our world. Because, deep inside, everything share the same spirits

• There is no right or wrong only if you choose to stand a certain position to look at it

• People’s comments could upset you or make you happy. Actually, it’s all about what you want to hear or what you don’t

• Trusts from others make me a better person

• Understand it before judge it. But remember, no matter where we stand, we can NOT see things in all it sides

• Life is loving others; Love is a courage, giving without asking

• We are unique also similar. In the big picture, we are generally same; we are just the tine spots that mixed up to one giant image – human. In the details, we are so different. We do share same spirits in many aspects even we all living up at different lifes (cultural, educational, social, genetic, etc

• Sometimes we believe in things only because we want to;

• The process could be much more important than the result; we are not born to die even that is our destiny, we are born to enjoy the process. If we do properly, our life will not end when the time come up. our spirit will carry on at others

• Take a breath to understand this — The most powerful thing we could have is ourselves; The most trustful ones in our life could be others. But what we usually see is the opposite – The most powerful thing belongs to others and we can only trust ourselves. (April 29, 2005)

• Those are just my thoughts; there is NO necessarily to agree and welcome to discuss. you know, we all change by times.